Maybe, you’re lying naked with a partner and don’t know where your voice goes.
Or, you have no idea where all your sexual desire went - it’s like it flew out the door 3 years ago and never came back. But what you do know is
you're not willing to settle.
You want a sex and relationship life that makes
room for pleasure, and plenty of it.
Where you rekindle your desire and finally
feel home in your body...
Darling, I've got you.
I’m celebrating you for this moment, right here.
Maybe you’ve talked through past traumas but still feel their impact in your body and relationships.
YOU ARE WORTHY OF HAVING A SEX & LOVE LIFE THAT COMES NATURALLY…
YOU ARE DONE WITH OVERRIDING YOUR NEEDS AND FEELING LIKE SEX IS A CHORE.
- SARAH
"Sophia is an exceptionally rare energy in the field of sexual and pleasure-based healing. She holds an incredibly strong and integrous container."
This is a space for you to stop carrying the challenges of your past and present.
You can put it down here.
Let's create a space for you
Take a breath with me, You can put it down ~ whatever you are carrying.
All your feelings are welcome here!
…I know because I’ve had these conversations with my clients and I’ve been there myself.
It’s ok to feel lost, numb, stuck, scared, nervous, frustrated, challenged or anything else you might be feeling when it comes to sex & intimacy. Or, maybe your curiousity, excitement, or feeling that more is possible brought you here.
SEX IS ONE OF THE GREATEST JOYS WE GET TO EXPERIENCE,
YET IT CAN BE SO COMPLEX & CHALLENGING.
Sex isn’t always easy or pleasurable.
Sometimes the terrain can be full of emotional or even physical pain and our strategy is to avoid it altogether. Sometimes that’s the best choice we can make for ourselves at the moment.
We aren’t just supposed to know what to do.
If you had an upbringing like mine, then there were no real sources of information or models of what
a healthy and positive sex life can look like.
Sex is also one of the hardest things to talk about
with those around us, even with our therapists. The discomfort and shame around sex is palpable and cultural. This makes it all too easy to feel alone and disconnected.
Because, yes, there is a way you can absolutely express yourself
fully in your sexuality and
have it received with love & care.
All of you is welcome here.
The map is not the territory.
The map of what your sex life has been so far and where it may be headed is ultimately not the terrain.
You are here to explore the terrain of your sex life in new ways and define it for yourself.
There are so many paths you can carve and take.
You set the pace and conditions of this journey.
Hold & heal the tender parts of you to create new pathways of safety & pleasure. No more pressure to feel ‘turned on’ and ‘ready to go’.
Establish healthy boundaries, connect with your desires, choices & voice. Time to put yourself first, stop people-pleasing and start asking for what you truly want.
Have all the permission and support to normalize your relationship with sex. No more comparison, never talking about it, and questioning if what you are feeling is ok?
Reclaim your body, sexuality, and pleasure as
your birthright. Let go of anything that told you otherwise. as your birthright.
Create fulfilling intimacy & relationships with yourself & loved ones. No more feeling like your glass is half empty or trying practices like eye gazing only to wonder what you are doing here.
I'm here to help you...
You Can Feel Empowered & Confident In Your Sexuality, Body & Relationships.
Let’s flip the script & turn up the heat with a trauma-informed approach & someone who knows what it's like to explore this type of terrain.
There's another way
This could be the first time you're reaching out for help or you’ve read all the books and haven’t integrated the practices, or you’ve worked with a therapist and met the limits of that realm.
No matter where you’ve been, you know more is possible in your body, sex & relationships.
Your Sexual Sovereignty
It's time to Heal so you can experience the richness of
Individual Coaching $225 - Sexological Bodywork $350
Couples Coaching $325 - Sexological Bodywork $450
What It Looks like:
We work together within a container of sessions based on your goals. There's no step-by-step process or neat formula. My practice is global and largely online. I also book in-person intensives and private retreats. Ultimately, this work is designed and customized for you and your relationship.
With the right support, you might be surprised how easy and normalizing it can be to talk about sex and create the sex & relationship life you've always longed for!
our work together
More about private SESSIONS
AREAS OF FOCUS:
Sexual Trauma History
Orgasms / Anorgasmia
Incompatibility
Low Libido
Anxiety Related to Sex
Sexual Shame
Sexual Health
Intimacy Issues
Communication
Sexual Identity/Orientation
Porn Addiction
Marriages
Infidelity
Counter-Normative Relationships
Open Relationships
Fantasies & Desires
Belief Systems
Boundaries
If this is your first time reaching out, we will start with a complimentary 15 minute call to make sure it's the right fit. If we both say yes, we will book your first session. From there, you'll have the option to book additional sessions.
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- Isabelle
"There are no words in any language that can encapsulate the gratitude that I have for Sophia and the sacred space she holds. "
My promise is that you too can create a beautiful and pleasure-filled sex & relationship life (and world!) where all of you is welcome!
My own journey in sexual healing has guided me to this work. Many times, I felt numb or in pain. I've struggled with vaginismus, pelvic pain, depression, body dysphoria, and setting boundaries. Past traumas had disconnected me from my body. With little access to my voice and pleasure, I was stuck in my head and focused on performing for and pleasing partners.
Everything clicked when I merged the worlds of Sex, Science & the Sacred. With the guidance of teachers like Shakti Malan and Caffyn Jesse, I realized that healing my relationship with sex would heal me and ripple out into every part of my life.
Now, my body is my temple, my home. The erotic exists everywhere in my life. Passion & safety are present in my intimate relationships. I have maps to navigate the rich terrain.
About Me
Somatic Sex Educator
Trauma-Informed Practitioner
Sex & RElationship Coach
Sophia
Our time with Sophia guiding us through practices to connect with each other was at once both grounded in reality and otherworldly. Both of us were so present in the moment and there with each other in our bodies and enraptured by the connection and intimacy we were sharing. I was most appreciative to Sophia for her gentle spirit and guidance with practical tips and practices that helped me to build and share the spiritual element of physical touch. Our sessions with Sophia have been both individually enriching and as a couple brought us back to a place of true pleasure in each other!
"Our sessions brought us back to a place of true pleasure in each other"
- Amy & Bryan
"Working with Sophia was such a foundational piece in my empowerment work and reclamation of my autonomy. I reached out to her hoping for guidance in understanding how to connect with my sexuality and my body. She held such a strong, compassionate, and gentle container that allowed me to feel safe to dive into this deep and sacred work. I felt so heard, and was given so many practices that are foundational to accessing my pleasure, joy, and connection to my body"
"Rather than trying to create safety by talking about it, she embodies It"
- Ally
Working with Sophia has been transformational. Before working with her, I had a lot of anxiety and difficulty expressing my sexuality and was unable to feel safe asking for what I needed. I had blocks around initiating and feeling confident in my body and so it was challenging to connect with partners sexually. After doing several sessions with her, I experienced gradual progress in my ability to be comfortable with who I am and own my sexuality. I began engaging with partners in new ways that I never had before and felt very natural doing it. The practices she's given continue to help me even after we've completed our sessions. She is a very conscientious and supportive practitioner and I highly recommend working with her.
"I became comfortable with who I am and began to own my sexuality."
- Leo
Sophia is an exceptionally rare energy in the field of sexual and pleasure-based healing. She holds an incredibly strong and integral container, truly absent in shadow, where she powerfully normalizes all paths toward making whole one's sexual relationship to self and non-self. Rather than trying to create safety by talking about it, she embodies that safety and support with steadfast assuredness and passionate belief. It radiates from her very essence and as her client, I got to bask in that loving and accepting warmth. For me, shame and awkwardness naturally fade away in her presence and a body-to-body transmission and recognition then occurs . . . where my own embodied version of this loving permission begins to blossom.
"Rather than trying to create safety by talking about it, she embodies It"
- Sarah
Having regular sessions with Sophia over the past year has changed my life. She has taught me the power of embracing pleasure in all of its reflections instead of fearing intimacy. She encourages me and helps me grow at a rhythm that is comfortable, challenging, and safe. She has brought my sacred practices to the new depths, instead of running from my inner wolf I run with it. I am learning to create my most sacred dreams and to hold space for my desires. There are no words in any language that can encapsulate the gratitude that I have for Sophia and the sacred space she holds. She is what a true healer is.
"SHE TAUGHT ME THE POWER OF EMBRACING PLEASURE INSTEAD OF FEARING INTIMACY"
- Isabelle
Let's discuss different options together! Many people I work with are individuals in relationships that start with 1-1 work and then include their partner for couples' work or vice versa.
I'M NOT SURE IF I WANT SUPPORT FOR ME OR MY RELATIONSHIP (COUPLES' WORK). WHERE DO I BEGIN?
Yes! I LOVE offering group work, women's workshops & retreats, trainings, and more. Usually in collaboration with other incredible facilitators, I host a couple of groups trainings and retreats per year. I also offer 1-1 retreats.
Reach out for more info!
DO YOU OFFER GROUP WORK OR TRAININGS & RETREATS?
Yes! My practice welcomes ALL gender identities, sexual orientations, and explorations of the gender galaxy & sexual identity. Let's jump on a call and if it's not the right fit, I have a great referral network.
DO YOU WORK WITH NON-BINARY & LGBTQIA+ ?
My deep commitment to you is to create a space that is trauma-informed and integrates my intensive trainings & regular supervision with trained trauma specialists. However, I am not a licensed trauma therapist.